Sunday, February 20, 2011

Happy Birthday, Mom!

Happy fourscore

and here's to so many more

Tonight to you honor

and champagne we pour

To give our due for

what's always been yours

That which you deflected

so others might soar


I suspect that

most are like me

We shudder to ponder

what life might be

If God had not given

to us so free

The splendor of you

for us all to see


We would not know

the bond of a sister

The eldest of which

would stand back to spur

Her brothers to glory

as you meekly transferred

Attention away

and to them you'd prefer


No, we would not know

the touch of a mother

That tender kiss

affection like none other

A word to the wise

and never a bother

To give of yourself

just like your (F)father


And we sure would not know

a faithful, dear friend

Whether golfing, or dining,

or praying to tend

The needs of them all

you condescend

That they all might flourish

and conversely ascend


Nor would we know

a caring grandma

Who always remembers

occasions of awe,

The grandchildren with you

never feel flawed

They'd rather be near

than ever withdraw


And Dad could not know

the sweetest of wife

Who always forgave

and served without strife

You freely sacrificed

some pleasures of life

To give to your husband

honor with rife


(I, suspect, that...)

If your parents were here

they'd know not a daughter

Who treasured them so

like a wellspring of water

Pure and refreshing

like a song from the Psalter

You'd bring them a smile

their heart not to falter


And so (Mom) we

hope

you surely realize

That you are influencing

o' so many of our lives

By just being you

we all seem to thrive

We're just that much better

with you by our sides


So happy fourscore

and so many more

Our wishes for you

and God we implore

To know without question

that you’re created for

The reflection of love

in Jesus we adore

We love you,

Thursday, February 10, 2011

A Bubblegum Tree?

The other morning before the day started, we sat down with the three girls (Willow, Poppy & Piper) to read the Bible, talk about it and look for our "grain of grace" for the day. We're ashamed that we did not do this at all with our first three kids and are hopeful to start a new habit with these three that kicks our day off on the right foot. This is one of the benefits of doing it all over again - we get to right at least a few of our wrongs (hopefully), and we certainly have our fair share of wrongs.

On this particular morning we considered the creativity of God and wondered in amazement at how He created something from nothing. We asked the girls if they could do that, and they all quickly nodded their heads indicating they could not. But we did all acknowledge that God's creativity included giving us imaginations that can also be creative. We then asked "If you could create anything you wanted out of nothing, what would it be?" Without hesitation Willow perked up and said, "A bubblegum tree" (with slurred speech that only family members can understand). Now we've never heard of a bubblegum tree (except maybe on Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory), but that was imaginative and, to Willow, the most incredible creation she could conjure up.

That was our grain of grace for the day, a bubblegum tree - an image that's hard to shake.

Thankful for little, creative imaginations,

Saturday, February 5, 2011

A Reconnection

We've recently reconnected with the gentleman that was instrumental in bringing our little Poppy-flower into the family. Without him, we're certain we might have never held her chubby, tear-filled cheeks between our hands that first day we saw her in China, and without question she'd not be with us today. We're indebted to him, although he would never see it that way. During the Holidays we were able to see him on camera through Skype (where he was once enjoining the helpless, he's now living among the helpless in Vietnam), and he saw Qing Zu Qiao for the first time. His tender voice to her exuded a personal love, even though he's probably placed hundreds of one-timed orphans into loving homes across our Country.

We're now friends on facebook, and he posted something that caused me to see God o' so clearly, even though His name is never referenced in the film. And watching this reminded me that the most beautiful expression of His being is in us. Watch this two and a half minute video and see if you don't see Him too (click on the link instead of the YouTube Video right below it because the film embedding is disabled).




Our adoption advocate's work in Vietnam also reflects the expression of God. You can see Him here as well by clicking on the link below:


Thank you, Tony,