Since we haven't made a post in awhile, we thought it might be nice to just attach a few shots of our family over the last few weeks. A picture is worth a thousand words and, thus, you'll get a better glimpse of the Kruggel-household of late by looking rather than reading.
Austin recently had surgery and Victoria went out to be with him, Meagan and the Kirkpatrick's. Meagan stayed by Austin's side the entire time and spent the night there every evening. Here they are, still as cute as ever.
That's right! Tom's holding a ticket to Game #2 of the World Series, compliments of his boss and partner. How generous is that?
It never really quite set in that Tom was actually at Game #2 of the World Series. Here he is with other fellow Hines colleagues.
Couldn't resist carving a pumpkin to show our team spirit. Victoria's Mao-tou-ying (owl) was a favorite in the family pumpkin-carving contest this year.
Having never carved a pumpkin before, Piper did quite well (one on the left). Willow's in the middle, and Poppy's on the right (Barret was out that night - boo hoo).
Wilow's becoming a Giant's fan (actually, not really - she hasn't got a clue what's going on, nor does she seem to care).
Here's Barret trying to play Xiao Qian's violin. He's much better at guitar. We think he'll stick with that.
Poppy asked Victoria the other day, "If the Giants win the World-Serious, will they be the best in the world?" We may find out tomorrow night. This is very, very serious.
What can we say? Poppy likes noodles, and she's got this chopstick thing down, we're tellin' ya.
On the pain scale, Austin's surgery was a pretty high one, but here he is not long after the operation being his usual, good-spirited self. He's recovering well, and we're all very grateful for our beloved son and our Jesus' grace, mercy and love.
Piper is so dexterous that it amazes us. Tom recently took her to a bow-making workshop with the other girls while Victoria was out of town. She made this incredible Fall-bow in a jiffy. She loves this stuff.
This is Tom being Tom right before Halloween. Xiao Qian thinks he's "fengla" (crazy) and is fresh bait for his silly gestures that no one laughs at anymore except Piper.
This picture quality isn't the best (phone-mail foto), but here's our sweet Annie-girl showing off her new scarf that Tom brought back from his recent trip to China. She's so cute.
Victoria & I are surprised by how few "firsts" there are for Piper when it comes to new and different experiences from those while living in China. Dressing up like fairy princesses and politely asking for candy is one that we finally discovered. Here they are - the three Chinese Fairly Princesses.
Thank you for your love, patience, support and encouragement.
We know that a few of you that follow our blog may not share our same faith, but we remain grateful that you stay in touch with us and follow along anyway. We genuinely love you all, regardless of anyone's convictions. But we want everyone to know that what motivates the direction of our lives runs much deeper than what's conveyed on the surface or in the body of our entries. We have a passion that was born not of ourselves, but given to us as the greatest gift of all. Deserving we are not, not only of the wonder and amazement of every member given into the Kruggel household, but more importantly of the faith we have. We desire that all receive the same free gift, and we pray that (like us) the blind would see, the lame walk, the fatherless come home and the dead rise again. Sound crazy? It did to us as well at one time, but now we cannot fathom going back to the place where we did not believe, where we did not trust.
Our family pleads with you to consider, with an open mind, the truth as expounded in the six and a half (6 1/2) minute video available below (click on it). Who Jesus was and what He did was not only a good and great thing, but the only thing that can absorb the emptiness we all feel, know and experience as common human beings.
Today Victoria and the little girls gave me a simple surprise and took me to a local orchard where they had some steel drum players. (Barret was working and XiaoQian was at a school project.) They figured that since there were drummers there I'd love that. I did. They were terrific, and the little thoughtful gesture was very sweet.
The proprietors had all their harvest wares on full display. It was so festive and fall-ish (Victoria's favorite time of the year). While there the girls decided they'd try on some silly outfits and pose for some "pumpkin-shots". They're posted below:
We love the Autumn.
So cute!
We're stylin'!
But this picture is the scariest of them all:
This is what a blueberry lollipop will do for you.
One of the things that always brings a smile to our faces when we travel to China is reading the Chinese character signage that's been translated into English. While literally correct we're sure, the grammatical translation is usually a little off. Sometimes it's hysterically off. Victoria's always thought that someone could make a fortune translating into English grammatically correct signage. Maybe there's an opportunity out there. To give credit where credit is due, however, we're sure that if the roles were reversed we couldn't even come close to accurately portraying what was trying to be communicated.
Here's a couple of examples of some signs I saw while in China last week.
We just think this is the funniest thing about our little Willow-tree. She, like many young girls her age, just love putting on other's shoes. But regardless of whether she's just playing with shoes that belong to someone else or putting on her own shoes, she almost always, that's right almost always, puts them on the wrong feet. What are the odds of that? Thing is, she doesn't even notice that they're backwards. I guess you kind of have to know her and and see her to appreciate this coincidence, but it brings a pretty big smile to our faces every time we look down at her feet.
If you’ve been following our blog lately, you know I’ve been in China this week on a business trip. I’m now returning on the long leg home with almost the same amount of time on my hands as that of when I wrote my entry of September 26th (or thereabouts – I’ve sort of lost track of time). As you might have deduced, I’ve wrestled greatly about the separation from my family, much more than I could possibly convey in written word. I worried of the miles between us to the point of almost getting an upset stomach. My sleep patterns had anything but a pattern, and my appetite was constricted. So physically speaking, this trip has done a number on my body. I’ve tried to stay close to the Lord and allow Him to be my portion (cf. Numbers 18:20b). There’s been no other portion for me to have. And while I wish I could say that it satisfied, it didn’t, at least not completely and all the time. God’s always in the business of satisfying, but I’m afraid I’m not always in the business of being satisfied by Him.
With the extra time on my hands while alone at night (at the same time as most of you were just waking up from a night’s sleep), I had plenty opportunity to think, pray and read. I went on long walks, perhaps miles (kilometers over there), mulling over and over and over again a myriad of thoughts, memories and reflections. All of this while immersed in a sea of people, but it was almost as if they were not there. I couldn’t get my family off my mind, and so anxiety set in until I was able come back to my magnetic north that pointed me where I needed.
Here’s where the compass pulled me, and Jesus spoke to me with these words, “Why are you so afraid?” (Mark 4:40a) “I don’t know why I’m afraid, my Lord”, I responded. “Help me with my fear.” (cf. Mark 9:24) When Jesus asked this question of the disciples who thought they were going to perish at the hands of the storm, their fear turned to a different kind, one of awe. They had just witnessed power to such a degree that even the wind and the waves fell subject to His command. There was a hush in their midst. The author, Mark, says “… there was a great calm”. (Mark 4:39b) I felt it then at that moment when He whispered those words into my ear, even though I thought the surge of the sea was crashing in around me. It comes when all other things are tuned out and I listen to the Word of Life, Truth. There are two places where I “hear” this calm. One is at the hands of the instrument, like Saul when David played the harp for him at times of distress. (cf. I Samuel) Sweet melody and lyric (music) of the kind that exalt Jesus bring me to that place. The other is much more powerful, and that’s at the hands of the Book. For Jesus alone possesses “the words of eternal life”. (John 6:68b) They’re “… perfect, restoring the soul;” They’re “sure, making wise the simple.” They’re “right, rejoicing the heart;” They’re “pure, enlightening the eyes.” They’re “clean, enduring forever;” They’re “true; they are righteous altogether. They are more desirable than gold, yes, than much fine gold; Sweeter also than honey and the drippings of the honeycomb.” (Psalm 19:7-10)
I’m moving away from the sun, and it has quickly become dark. My daylight has been cut short, so I shall sleep, now while you sleep. When I awake, I will almost be home. My good friend Huang, from China, who I spent most of my time with while there, told me that I should sleep with my head pointed north because the magnetic pull is good for my blood flow. I’m afraid I’m sitting east/west and cannot turn the plane in a different direction. That’s O. K., I’d rather have poor circulation to reach my destination than any physical gain from pointing toward the poles. For now I’m calm again, in the presence of Jesus who just set the sun. “Do not be afraid” (Mark 6:50b), He gently says to me… He says to you.
If You're Reading, Let Us Know So We Can Celebrate With You In Our Adoption Of Life Abundant
OUR FAMILY (We're no longer orphans!)
Tom
Victoria
Austin
Meagan
Brian
Annie
Barret
Piper (16)
Poppy (7)
Willow (6)
Willow
Wu Hui Xuan
About Xiao Qian
Li: This is the Orphanage Director's last name (remember, last names first in China), so all of the children from her orphanage have this last name.
Xiao: We're told that this means "little", although we're not completely certain (the Chinese characters are much more definitive, but we haven't been able to find anyone to completely interpret them for us). Regardless, it's meant to be endearing, and thus her middle name (which is always used or spoken before her first name, below).
Qian: This means "beautiful", and so she really is (both physically and in her personality).
So, as they say in China, "She has a very beautiful name", as are all names in China. We happen to think her's is special though.
Guangzhou, Guongdong Province
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Xiao Qian Travel Itinerary
January 22nd - Leave for Hong Kong
January 23rd - Arrive in Hong Kong & Spend Night
January 24th - Train to Guangzhou
January 25th - RECEIVE XIAO QIAN
January 26th - 28 - Paperwork & Medical in Guangzhou
January 29th - 31st - Excursion to Guilin, China
February 1st - Consulate Appointment in Guangzhou
February 2nd - Pick Up Xiao Qian's VISA
February 3rd - Swearing In @ U.S. Embassy/Train to Hong Kong
February 4th - Site Seeing in Hong Kong with Xiao Qian
February 5th - Flight To & Arrive In San Francisco (ENTIRE FAMILY REUNITED)
Xiao Qian's New Family
Poppy, Annie, Victoria, Barret, Willow, Austin & Tom on May 18th, 2008
Annie, Victoria, Poppy, Barret, Austin, Tom & Willow on September 14th, 2008
Caitlin & Meghan (Nieces), Poppy, Tom, Victoria, Willow, Annie, Barret, Meagan (Future Daughter-In-Law) & Austin on November 29th, 2008
Annie, Poppy, Tom, Willow, Victoria, Meagan, Austin & Barret on March 23rd, 2009
Why Adoption?
When the confluence of providences encircled our lives during early 2005, such as (i) listening to a series of tapes of family communication with Tom's dad when he was stationed in Vietnam, (ii) thus prompting the contemplation of his own physical adoption as a newborn baby, (iii) further causing us to remember our own priceless spiritual adoption into the family of God, (iv) hearing a biographical sketch of the life of patriarch George Mueller and his undaunted passion for the orphans, (v) being simultaneously struck by the words of our Lord, "This is pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father, to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keeponeself unstained by the world." (James 1:27), (vi) wrestling with our own disdainful selfishness, and (vii) watching in the comfort of our family room on a dreary February Sunday afternoon a Steven Curtis Chapman DVD (Live "Declaration" Concert) that featured his own adoption of several orphaned Chinese girls; we simply could not escape the peering question, "Why adoption?" In fact, the reverse question was quickly and unforgettably etched in our minds, "Why not adoption?" So, "Why not adoption?" we must ask. Because we must give away what does not belong to us. Because we must fight the war of selfishness by forcing ourselves into the battlefield of love. Because we must share the remainder of our lives by providing for the"least of these". Because we must bring the foreign mission field into our home since we're not in foreign lands. Because we must avoid the comfortable and deceiving trap of complacency. Because we must see the grace of God's spiritual adoptive gift played out in the tangible example of physical adoption. Because there's one little child out there that needs a home, and we have one. That's why!
A Favorite Quote
We love this quote from a fellow adopter pilgrim and wanted to share it with you:
"There's no other more worthy thing to invest your time, life or money into - than the lives of children. Dear ________ had a wonderful life in China with a wonderful foster family for nearly 7 years .... but she was NEVER told that there was a God who created her, loves her and died for her to be able to go to Heaven. She is just eating up the Word of God and glows with inner joy!! No amount of money, time or having a safe/comfortable life can compare to seeing this transformation in her life! And dear little _______ - she would have been dead in the arms of some poor ayi, since no one in China could have ever fixed her heart -it was a real toughy for the docs here in the states! And if we have to pay the bills off for years to come, so be it!
No we are not crazy and no we are not trying to fill some void in our lives or trying to 'stay young' by having kids in our late forties! We have heard all of those comments! The crazy ones most of all. But when you do it once, you finally know that it's not that bad/hard and geez, we could do this for yet another child! ... and another .... and another!
Catch the adoption Spirit!! Actually several of my email/adoption girlfriends think we should create a new AA - adopters anonymous! 'Hello, my name is Mary and I peeked at another waiting child list just this morning!' LOL! Another heart issue for me is this - when I reach Heaven's gates, I want to have run a long, hard race, fought a tough, exhausting fight and fall at the dear Lord's feet totally spent and used up for Him. I do NOT want to be wallowing in riches in my retirement years, sipping tea by the pool and taking sight seeing world trips! I do not want to be refreshed and freshly showered - I want to be worn out and filthy from the work of bringing every child I can to the Lord's throne. THEN and only then will I truly enter into rest and be able to rejoice forevermore with all the children HE has brought into my life!!"
Austin & Meagan's Wedding Day
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Meagan & Austin's Wedding Website
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Ugandan Children Ministry
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Willow Rae Hui Xuan
First Glimpse That Captured Our Hearts
Photo Taken in August, 2007
Picture taken in May, 2008.
Photo Taken in December, 2008
About Willow
Willow's Chinese Name:
Wu Hui Xuan
Wu: From Wuwei, Gansu Province Hui: Intelligent Xuan: Lofty/Outstanding Talents
Willow was born on September 7th, 2006 and was left at the entrance to the Wuwei Social Welfare Institute (orphanage) on September 14, 2006. She spent approximately 4 months in the Wuwei SWI before joining her foster family in January 2007. As far as we know, she has been with her foster family since that time...the past 15 months. Her records indicate that her cleft lip was repaired in July of 07. (Scroll down the page to see her "before" photo). Her cleft palate will be repaired once she is home with us.
Willow will be 20 months old on May 6th. (Poppy and Willow are 20 months apart in age.) We received an update last week reporting that, "She weighs 21 pounds and is walking steadily. She likes sweet foods (of course), listening to music and playing outside.
We can't wait to meet her!
Willow's Wei
What are you saying through those pensive eyes, Peering from the corners, Piercing through , Protecting your borders, To make sense of the cries?
Are you asking, "Why?" Why was I the one, Missing a part, That prevents me to say, And express or impart? Born with a blemish, And the plight of a girl, Among the billions of souls, And their search for a pearl.
Are you asking,"Who?" Who was the one, That left me alone, On a threshold so cold, Feeling lost and forelorn? Born in a land, Among others with sore, Wondering who could release, From the depth of their core.
What are you saying through those pensive eyes, Peering from the corners, Piercing through , Protecting your borders, To make sense of the cries?
Are you asking, "What?" What would happen, Of me now and to come, So small, so young, Hoping for life wherever it's from? A future unknown, Under the expanse of the skies, Waiting, wanting, Some release from my sighes.
Are you asking, "When?" When was it conceived, That my days were decreed, To find a home, When to stay and be freed? To move about, From shore to distant shore, To land with another, Whose past I safely adore.
What are you saying through those pensive eyes, Peering from the corners, Piercing through , Protecting your borders, To make sense of the cries?
Are you asking, "Where?" Where am I going, And where shall the end I be, Subject to fate, And the hope that I'll see. Held in love, And the embrace of another, Trusting my Maker, And His love to smother.
What are you saying through those pensive eyes, Peering from the corners, Piercing through , Protecting your borders, To make sense of the cries?
Are you asking, "How?" How can it be, That one such as I, Could possibly mean, So much from on High? Perfectly created, In spite of such flaw, And adorned with great love, From the One born in straw.
Here's what I'm saying through my pensive eyes, Peering from the corners, Piercing through , Protecting my borders, To make sense of my cries.
While questions abound, And I ponder them all, I welcome the love, He has to install. That I might be safe, And rescued from grief, That I might not question, His perfect relief.
Poppy Mae Zu Qiao
"I'm a big sister!"
Poppy's Poem
I knew not that I was born in a far distant land, to parents that loved and cradled with hand. From a country that values and depends on the boy, to care for the aged and their lineage with joy.
I knew not that I was feeble, had heart with a hole, that beat for love, and a need to be whole. When discovered would be a curse that was second, to being a girl; that could not be reckoned.
I knew not that I was among a tribe so rare, to be a Yao with the proud and a people so fair. The trails they traverse in a land roaming hills, would dare not welcome a girl with such ills.
I knew not that I was left near an opening to a mine, that frequented workers in the morning to find. A baby all alone, so helpless and weak, crying for love, only to hear someone speak.
I knew not that I was found by a stranger that cared, who took me in, and was willing to spare. Only to find that I was without name, a child of the fatherless, then housed with the lame.
I knew not that I was taken to others away, to become an orphan with no direction or say. To live among cribs, all lined in a row, receiving little comfort by the others in stow.
I knew not that another would dare to give, so my heart might be healed in order to live. The fear and the pain came all too quick. Who am I, O' my, why am I so sick?
I knew not of God or that He would call, from another country a family so small. To love and to welcome a baby unknown, into their hearts with shelter and home.
I know now that life is so sweet, When God stirs a heart for others to greet. For this is His purpose in creating it all, That He might receive glory, when ransomed from the Fall.
Tom's Adoptions
Fatherless the world received, A mother who unwittingly conceived, Knowing not what was foretold, That from the foundations of old, One would be sold, And rescued from the bereaved.
Another mother, a new found father, Their journey traversed for a baby to garner, Sacrificially abundant with shelter and feed, Care and cover without any greed, As one's own pure seed, A child who was sealed with bronze laden solder.
Wandering through a sufferless life, Enjoying pleasures and rewards with no strife, The victories that are known, Oh, the hubris that is sown, Into a soul of its own, Naively severed from God with a saboteur's knife.
Again an orphan, but now by choosing, A pathway that leads to loneliness and losing, Stranger and foe from a far distant plot, Found by the Alpha and Omega to adopt, A heart tied in knot, Delivered from fatal wounds that were ceaselessly oozing.
Now there is life to one born again, But what shall one do with such purpose without chagrin? To give away what is not yours, By penetrating with deepening bores, The healing of similar sores, For another who can never win.
Thus it is with those that are chosen, For they do not seek the promise that's frozen, For determined from the beginning of time, Their name is ever sublime, With a heritage of line, That is written in the Book that is golden.
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